Daily functioning tips

After suffering trauma These were the tips that I found useful. For some it took long time to figure it out. Some of these tips I describe while writing my diary. However, this is benefit of wiki as can collect them in one place to make it easier to read.

Have a routine, daily plan, but do not take it hard

You may not complete a single day this plan, but it will make your day simpler, when your head does not function.

Writing a diary

I never had a time to write diary, nor did I feel a need. However, things changed. After the trauma the fear become overwhelming. It makes very difficult to feel anything than overwhelming fear. Journaling, or expressive writing is highly recommended for healing after trauma. I found it useful tool. It is not a magic thing, but it helps to move forward a bit. I found that the most useful is to write diary as the first thing when you sit down to start working or sometimes as soon as you get up for the day. It helps to reduce that morning rush of overwhelming fear, when everything seems catastrophic and you are freezing without being able to do anything.

Playing some sounds

Complete silence is the best option when you need to focus under normal circumstances. However, having PTSD is not normal and it affects a lot especially by significantly reducing ability to focus on the task ahead. I found that some sounds were better depending on the time of the day and how you feel:

Middle of the night - guided medications (especially body scan). They were especially helpful after calls to help lines as it maintains the illusion of someone being close to you.
Early morning - birds singing. Can be other nature sounds, but birds seem to work the best. In rare occasions while feeling very down and needing to start day very slow meditation music might be useful.

Working in bed

When I am exhausted just sitting requires a significant effort. So, I move to work in bed. I arrange myself so, that I need to move only fingers. Everything including my head and my arms are resting on pillows. I arrange myself lying on my back in half seated position. Laptop has to be lifted up so, that you are actually looking up when you are looking at the screen. If you leave it low and will be looking down it will make you even more sleepy. This position gives me extra 15-20 minutes energy time before I completely shut down by dozing off, or simply lying numb. It is not very productive, but when you are in survival mode any move forward is a good one.

Is it worth it?

Maybe half an hour ago I got to the point where no matter how hard I tried; I could not focus anymore. So, I went for a short walk. It is a beautiful day outside. I used to love days like this. However now it was reminding how much I lost. Out of nowhere thought came to my head: "is it worth it?". It is my life. Of course, it is worth it. Any amount of effort is worth in trying to get better. I want my life back. Such questions imply that it was my free choice to get hit by a car and to be abused by layers so that I can fight them. You cannot ignore what has happened. There is no magic wand to undo it. The only purpose of this question is to put a blame on victim.

Doing something despite overwhelming fear when you have to do things

That is not something I recommend doing on normal circumstances. This is only for the case when you are in terrible situation:

You have experienced Trauma and you have PTSD, that is crippling your life
You have a task that is related to trauma and just a thought about it makes you freeze in fear
You do not have a choice; you need to do this task. Completing it actually may help slightly softening your PTSD symptoms.

When you cannot cope

You wish that such day would never come. However, if you have experienced trauma and have PTSD there is a change that such day may come. It is useful to know what to do and to have simple action plan. I have a list: call Sane, call Lifeline, got to Safe Haven, go to Police Station, go to Emergency Department. For more details please read When you cannot cope.

Coping with panic attack

Panic attacks at least in my view are reasonably understood and there is many good strategies to deal with them when they come. Preventing panic attacks is different and way more complex story. In order for panic attack strategies to work you need to prepare it ahead. So, here is my list, start with the easiest and if it does not work then next and so on.

Step away from what you are doing. It is unlikely to do something useful during panic attack.
breathing exercises (double inhale)
meditation (body scan)

Pushing forward when you have no energy

Spicy food. Always punch a boost. As far as I know there were no negative side effects in consumed in moderation. I keep a jar of jalapenos in my fridge and time after time I eat one small slice. It cuts through all sensations and lets me to do just a bit more. The small price of burning sensation and pain is nothing in comparison to reducing complete exhaustion even if just for a bit. I do not have time now, but when I can I will grow my own. Simple read: Spicy Food Challenges: Harmful or Healthy?. I am very sure I am scarifying some of my taste buds for this, but it is worth it. My ability to taste is reduced anyway and because spicy food provides some grounding it may allow me to taste better at given moment. I will attempt to restore them when my mental health will bet better.
Mint. Leaves or in processed form even as candy it helps a bit. It goes well with spicy food - increases its effectiveness. Again, I do not know any danger if consumed in moderation. Often just one leaf is enough. I used to grow all the time, only this year I did not cleared other plants that were grown in pots where mint was staying dormant over winter and it did not come back. Read more about mint Health Benefits of Mint And Its Side Effects.
Coffee. I found coffee more efficient if I take antidepressants. Then several cups of coffee would make me a bit focused after lunch, otherwise I stay drowsy all day. However, more than few cups of coffee around the lunch is maximum of its efficiency. When you are exhausted, spicy food works better.
Tea plant leaves (Camellia sinensis) e.g. black or green tea. Works similar to coffee, only coffee has stronger effect on me.
Taking a break: short walk or medication. Sometimes, short walk can help, but if you are exhausted it may also make you more tired. Meditation is a good option if you are also physically exhausted, which is an option very often. It works much better than other forms of relaxation like listening to music or watching some video as it utilizes other body senses that are not so active otherwise. Of course if you are tired and you able to have a nap and have time do it. Then it is a best option. Unfortunately, I struggle to fall asleep during the day.
Visualising distorted image in a funny way. If there is something you have to do and you know it is going to be difficult emotionally, sometime s it may reduce stress by having different visual image than the actual expected events. Example: I need to go through my emails and collect of corrupt conduct by my solicitors. It causes me a lot of stress that often result in panic attacks, when I feel so nauseous that I cannot hold it anymore. Sometimes before I never start I may already feel unwell. So, I bring image of the cat making the same movement, close to puking, when it is offered something it does not like. The only difference is that cats look funny. I play this image in my mind several times and it is a bit easier to start the required task.

Nothing substitutes sleep

This is a bit sad one as I wish there would be something.

My example: I had no good night sleep since the injury. Sometimes it is worse, sometimes it is a bit better. However, in average I am feeling severely sleep deprived and exhausted all the time. For example I am so tired now, that I started feeling pain, just by trying to navigate where to write and with every keystroke it is getting worse and worse.

What to do? There is no good solution, so there recommendation is to do the best you can:

Try to get as close to required hours of sleep as you
Use all relaxation techniques that works for you and keep trying and retrying new ones
Use all other tools and devices that can help, like keeping dark, silent or noisy if needed, and taking supplements or tea and anything else you can get
Dedicate good portion of the day to sleep. I try to sleep from 21:00 till 9:00. It may be that I still get only 40 min of sleep, but I do dedicate this time to attempts to sleep.
Scarify other things if you have to, but try to get at least minimum amount of sleep. For me it is 5 hours. And most of the time I fail to get. I am actually surprised how resilient my body was, but it is coming to the limit. Nothing else will matter if you come to early grave. I scarified maybe 95% of the things I enjoy doing. I still have to do a little bit, because you can not give up everything for too long. I gave up all my hopes and dreams, but I will survive. I will get over this. One day.